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Posted on Friday, February 10, 2012 11:35 AM
5 Valentine's Day Surprises That'll Get You Laid - For the Ladies
There's less than a week til that holiday we love to hate and much of
what makes Valentine's Day difficult to bear is the pressure put on
guys to be "the man" and get their chicks some kind of boat or pony to
show they love them fo' realz. But spending big bucks on a present that may or may not make a
difference is not in the picture for most of us these days, and honestly
ladies -- you've gotta stop expecting your guy to do all the work.
So here are 5 affordable ways to show the guy of the moment (or the
one you want to keep around for a while) that you care -- and that
you're definitely interested in getting laid that night.
1. Role-play. With Costumes. Ask any guy -- one of several ultimate fantasies involves his partner
wearing some kind of get-up that resembles a super-hot female figure
from pop culture (or real life). Some usual suspects? Princess Leia.
Jessica Rabbit. Lara Croft from "Tomb Raider." Any character portrayed
by Angelina Jolie. Whatever his turn-on, try putting together an ensemble that gives him the right idea.
And if fantastical ladies aren't his bag, use the tried and true
French maid or naked chef (with an apron for safety) idea. Don't make
him wait until Halloween to see you wearing a sluttified version of an
everyday outfit.
2. Cook. Food and sex -- believe it or not, they're up on there on guys' "want
all the time" scale higher than oxygen and high-5's. And who wouldn't
want to come home from work/play to find he's got a full meal waiting
for him and he doesn't have to do a damn thing in order to eat it?
Figure out his favorite food and see if you're capable of making it.
Surprise him with a nice spread (pun intended) and if you're feeling
extra saucy (pun also intended) serve him wearing just an apron and a
smile. Make sure to drop a napkin more than once and give him a good show as
your bend, twist and reach for it. And no need for dessert, as whatever
he eats after he takes that last bite of steak is up to him.
3. Plan a Bedroom Adventure. This takes a bit of time and thought, but if that's a problem for you, you might want to rethink your goals. At this point you and your man probably have boned a few times and
you might have picked up on a few of his favorite sex positions - and
possibly a few he'd like to try but you haven't felt up for yet. Show your man how much you want him -- and want to please him -- by
rallying, stretching and prepping yourself for some selfless sex. He'll love knowing you spent at least a few minutes thinking about
exciting ways for him to fuck you and you to suck him, and if he sees
some sexy accessories by the bed his boner will be at full mast before
you touch your toes.
4. Practice Tantric Sex You've read about it, seen Sting talk about it on Oprah, but it still
seems like a completely fantastical act that only hippies and Grammy
winners practice. Not true.
It's not as hard as it looks. (That's what she said?)
5. Use Sex Toys. Yeah yeah, we all say we love sex toys, but chances are we probably
haven't dived into the couples toy world as deeply as we probably
should. There are apprehensions and nerves to bypass, and it's not
always easy to get him in the mood using something with a whirring
motor.
So how about getting a few sex toys that are made specifically for
his pleasure that you also can use together? The Fleshlight and other
masturbator sleeves make handjobs feel better than ever, and you can
make eye contact and all kinds of sexy talk to each other as you slowly
work him with your newly vagina-ized hand.
Or bring over a cock ring, especially one with a vibrator. This will
make his cock and balls look even huger than they already do (ahem) and
give him an extra-hard erection thanks to its blood flow control.
And with a vibrator you (aka your clitoris) gets some pleasure, too.
Chances are that little vibrating cock ring might give you an enhanced
orgasm as you're fucking, which will make you feel like a million bucks
and him feel like a fucking STUD.
But if sex toys ain't your bag, pick up some special lube -- flavors
can be fun -- or maybe some massage oil. That stuff is much easier to
introduce to a sex toy phobe and are still hella fun to use together.
Just remember -- this sex toy shopping trip is for him. Remember that
"Simpsons" episode in which Homer bought Marge a bowling ball for her
birthday? Do you think he really purchased that gift with his
blue-haired wife in mind? Nope. So don't pull a Homer - leave the glitter, pink bows, and rhinestones for your own personal pussy time. |
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Posted on Thursday, February 09, 2012 1:42 PM
Our First Sex Toy
Posted by Anonymous
Jan 30, 2012
I was never the type of guy who thought I would ever use any type of sex toy.
That was until I got with my fiancé who opened up a new world for me
and her. She’s the kind of girl who knows what she wants in the bedroom,
and you sure as hell better give it to her. She slowly introduced me to
my first sex toy, but that wasn’t our last!
One night while we were talking, she mentioned how much she would love for me to use a vibrator
on her. I wanted to but she’s been my only partner and I never bought a
sex toy. Of course I was a bit embarrassed when I knew she was sending
me to the store to look for a treat for her. Leaving the house with
money in hand, and my stomach was in knots. How did I know what to get
her? All I could think about was wanting to please her, so I knew
exactly where I was heading. I nervously opened the door and all I saw
was porn. I walked inside and started to look around. A man asked if I
needed any help, so I joked about coming in here and not having a clue
what to get. He made a few suggestions and I went with something pink.
It’s her favorite color. Walking up the stairs to our apartment seemed
to take forever. She looked my way with a huge smile on her face. “You
actually went” she said. I tossed her the box, and she didn’t hesitate
to open it. Within the next year, I discovered new ways to make her
world spin. My curiosity was starting to get to me.
The next toy we bought was a butt plug.
She was never interested in anal till the past year or so. I slowly
gained her trust and showed her all the pleasures she had been missing
out on. To my surprise, she was the one who bought the plug and lube. I
was shocked to see that she enjoyed anal that much. I was even more
surprised to see the size she had picked. She admitted to me it was much
larger than she expected, but with a little patience and lots of lube,
she was in heaven. Another purchase she made shortly after was two more
plugs. I had never suspected that she would love anal so much. I love
the fact that she always wants a plug in during sex. It’s really sexy,
and knowing she can get off from anal alone is a turn on in itself. I
love that she enjoys it so much mainly because I was the one who made
her love it. Which is rare when it comes to sex, shes normally showing
me what I like!
Our next purchase was the first one for me. It included a few c-rings
and a lovely masturbator. My girl knows me apparently. She was the one
who suggested we get these items. A masturbator is something every guy
has to try at least once. I rarely masturbate, so I didn’t see a need
for one. If I’m horny, I just get laid. Then I started thinking of all
the fun things that I knew she would do to me with it. So we ordered it
and used it as quick as we could get the packaging off and wash it. It
was like a gift sent from god. Having more toys for the both of us just
means more foreplay and more fun! The masturbator feels life-like and
you can have a lot of fun when it comes to partner play.
The c-rings she had bought were a new experience I didn’t even know
was possible. My girl was pleasantly surprised to find my cock was much
thicker. Since I have ordered my rings, I wear them every time we have
sex, and it has made it a new experience for us both. I get amazing head
for hours a day because my girl loves the way the veins pop out of my
cock when I wear it. I love the results we both get from me wearing one.
It’s funny how a simple ring can cause such a drastic change in your
sex life. But if people have been using c-rings as long as they have,
somethings got to be good about them! C-rings really are a must have for
any man who is sexually active. If you don’t own one then you are
really missing out.
My girl has turned a virgin into a sex addict. I feel that I am lucky
to be with her. She keeps showing me new sides of sex I never would
have had the courage to try without her next to me.
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Posted on Friday, February 03, 2012 9:57 AM
It's always fun to DIY!
5 Sexy Homemade Gift Ideas For Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day
is approaching, and if you’re short on cash, homemade gift ideas are
your best bet. They’re sweet and romantic, without breaking the bank.
Plus, a homemade gift is much more special than any store bought one.
Here are five you don’t want to pass up on.
Chocolate Covered Strawberries
No, you don’t have to make a trip to your local gourmet chocolate
store and spend a ton of money to get a nice box of chocolate covered
strawberries. These are easy to make at home and can be easily dressed
up for Valentine’s Day with an inexpensive box and some tissue paper.
If you do have some money to spend, you definitely want to go quality
here. Get quality, organic strawberries and high quality melting
chocolate. Simply dip the strawberries in the melted chocolate and set
on a piece of wax paper. Refrigerate until they’re hardened and then
arrange them in your decorative box. Voila! Way better than any box of
chocolates you buy at the store.
If you want to get creative, look up some recipes on how to use white
and milk chocolate together. When you gift them to your partner, make
sure to include eating them sensually with a bottle of inexpensive champagne. That’s the best part of all!
Budoir Photos
Get your digital camera and take some sexy photos of yourself in lingerie
and then again, in various stages of undress. If you have a friend that
you trust to do this, employ them to help you so you can get some
better quality photos. Upload them to a free online video editor (or a
really good program if you happen to have one, but free editors are good
too) and fix blemishes, add a filter if you like or even make it black
and white for a really great look.
Once they’re done, print them out on a home photo printer (no, these
aren’t ones you can send to your local photo developer) and either frame
a few of your favorites or put them in a special book for your lover.
If you don’t have a photo printer, make a digital collage and send it to
him with a sexy email. He will love being able to look at you instead
of porn when he’s feeling randy. Of course, he’ll still look at porn too, but your photos are likely going to be his special favorite.
Sex Coupons
Sex coupons are always in style and extremely easy and inexpensive to
make for Valentine’s Day. You can grab some construction paper, markers
and glitter from the store if you want to go all out, or you can simply
type them out, throw a few cute clip art photos on there and print
them. Either way, sex
coupons are an excellent option if you don’t have a lot of funds for
the big day. Just make sure you actually follow through whenever your
man wants to redeem them.
If he wants to redeem a coupon for a 30 minute long blowjob
and you say you’ve got a headache, it’s like you’ve taken his gift back
to the store, just before he got to open it. So go through with
whatever you put on your coupons, whenever your guy redeems them.
Headache or not.
Cook A Delectable, Candlelit Dinner
You don’t have to go out to dinner on Valentine’s Day if you don’t
want to brave the crowds or don’t have the cash for a decent
reservation. Plan a meal that you can cook, and set the table. Most
people actually don’t eat at the dining room table, so if you set the
table with candles and everything, it’s going to seem almost – almost – like
you’re at a restaurant. If you can’t cook, order out! Just make sure
you’re sitting across the table from your beau without the distraction
of the television, your phones, the computer, etc. To make it sexy, try
cooking and eating while completely naked. Or, let him eat dinner off you.
A Sexy Treasure Hunt
Make your man go on a treasure hunt – with you as the treasure! Leave post-its with dirty messages
on them, or rose petals leading from the door all the way to the
bedroom. Use your creativity to come up with a fun way for him to find
you, so long as you’re waiting for him either naked or dressed in
something very, very sexy. He will love the suspense of looking for you,
only to find you ready and waiting for him!
Thanks for a great article, Kaylen! Find more tips for your sweetie at www.bondassage.com
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Posted on Wednesday, January 04, 2012 9:33 PM
Lots of great news ~
We're getting very, very close to releasing the new Bondassage website, and it's a beauty! It should be live next week :)
Tracy in Berlin will be offering Bondassage Practitioner Training starting this month, and I've just certified two additional "Traveling" Trainers ~ Pele (Hawaii/Utah/San Francisco/New York) and Daria (Texas/Chicago/New York). Contact them directly and have them come out and train you!
I'm still working on the book, and just starting production on a series of short (30 sec) videos for youtube.
It's going to be a fabulously kinky year, folks!
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Posted on Friday, November 25, 2011 11:46 PM
"Bondassage For Lovers" is coming along nicely. I'm still in the research stage, and it's such a pleasure to peruse my kink/sex library looking for interesting tidbits to add ...
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